Wow!

 Hi again!

Holy shit a lot has happened! The previous post i made before this was was JUST before covid hit (well at least in Denmark). It´s been 6 years!? I bought a car! And a house (with my best friend)!

So going back to talking about the previous post which i posted start of March 2020 and complained about being fat and lazy... I remember i lived with my then-boyfriend in Horsens and felt a bit lost because i was searching for a trainee job (elevstilling som salgsassistent). Covid hit and Animal Crossing New Horizons released so i got about a month of just pure gaming and laziness before i finally got a trainee job in Petworld. I broke up with the boyfriend in autumn that same year. Stayed in the apartment. Petworld closed down due to being bought by Maxi Zoo January 2021, so i continued my education/job there. Oh yeah and i had a hamster in that period of time too.

In April 2022 i finished my education (uddannet salgsassistent med speciale i dyrehandel). And was transferred from Maxi Zoo in Horsens to the one in Vejle. 

My mom had a stroke 31th October 2022... She has recovered so well as of now but it has taken a long time and she has been a true fighter. 

January 2023 i moved to Vejle to live closer to my job.
I began spending so. much. money. I was so stupid. I spent money on an electric bike, new phone, a trip to Disneyland Paris, a trip to Turkey, expensive cat furniture, games, books and merch... 
So exactly a year later, January 2024 i moved back in with my mom in Løsning. 

I got my debt to my dad paid during the time i lived with my mom but i took the opportunity of living cheap with her and spent more stupid money; A London trip where i bought 13 books, more merch, a trip to Greece, A Playstation 5, two tattoos and almost a whole new wardrobe.

2025 was the year tho where i found my footing. I got a new job in Jysk in April 2025 which was so much better paid than the job i had before. So, stuff started happening because of the bigger income and the still low rent at moms. I got my car July 2025 and in August 2025 me and my best friend signed the papers for our house which we then moved into November 2025. Oh and i totally still spent stupid money, like, i bought 22 books on the now second annual London trip with the girls <.< (hopefully when we go to the third annual trip to London, which is in a months time, i will control myself a little bit)
To continue on the 2025 recap; I had a lot of personal growth as well.
In 2022 i figured out i was nonbinary and came out to my friends, not family. I found my new name a year later, in 2023 and got my friends to call me by my new name. I then legally changed it May 2025 and came out to family and in general everybody i knew on Facebook. And later this year, September 2026 i am booked to getting top surgery which i have looked forward to in years. 

I am happy and content. Of course being a house owner is a lot more complicated than imagined and driving from Kolding to Uldum for work is really testing my driving anxiety but i am managing and feeling like i am winning this battle that is called adulthood. 

Okay bye again~